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The Human Mind...

...never ceases to amaze me. Its potential ...The depth of feelings that it is capable of...

The Price of Insecurity...

...is very very high. Someone very close to me is a highly insecure individual. The pain of interacting with her cannot be described in words. Her insecurity makes her feel unloved and it takes a herculean effort to prove otherwise...Every statement I make has to be carefully thought through - or else she would feel that I am being ungrateful. I understand that everyone craves appreciation and gratitude - but if you are not sure of yourselves, then you would just end up making it very difficult for others to express these feelings for you.

On the other hand, being arrogantly sure of oneself, is also a sure shot way of messing up your relationships. No one would give you any advice and you will end up with egg on your face sooner than later !

Friday Blues

My Performance Manager once told me that intelligence is a turn-on for me. He went on to add that lack of intelligence is a big turn-off for me and that it is a key area of improvement as not many people may be as intelligent as me. (or as perceived by me :) )...Though I didn't explicitly agree or disagree with him, it was a truth about myself that I knew from very early days...I remember how I used to have very less patience with friends who found it 'cool' to not do their best to learn about concepts and chose the 'smart' way of copying assignments and repeating the same for exams. On the other hand, I was willing to spend hours on end, with someone who was willing to try and learn something from me....(though the numbers were few and far in between and consisted mostly of guys who found it otherwise interesting to spend time with a girl - well, I was naive and already in a relationship, so I didn't suspect anything while helping them out...). Today, again, …